Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts

Saturday, March 2, 2013

Why Wouldn't You ??

Sting & Trudie Styler


Invite Love to your Doorstep.  Too few have it, know it and Live it, when nothing else compares in making Life worth Living!!!

Love beyond all fear!  Dive headlong into Passion with all of your appetite and leave your inhibitions behind!  You are good-looking enough, lovable enough and wonderful enough to have Great Love!!  Life is best Lived two-by-two~ we weren't meant to Live alone.  Life is best Lived with the Love of your Life~~ everything else is shades of pale. 



Marc Chagall & Bella

Great Love is not lust.  It is not just partnership.  It is not just comfort or friendship or familiarity.  It is not obsession, possession or domination.  

Great Love is when you are both free to be yourselves, to be completely honest.  When you are willing to have the tough conversations (maybe not in the heat of a moment, but soon after things cool off).  You want to touch each other often and your Lives start to unfold in positive directions because you have come together.  He says the things that your soul has always longed to hear and means them. 


Chagall & Bella's Wedding


Your Lives naturally begin to merge and you make your plans for tomorrow together.  There is much to learn from each other, but there is also an inherent understanding/ knowing of each other; an unspoken language, something deeper than the mundane that is there from the first meeting and it never goes away.





You want the highest and best for one another and are willing to go out of your way to do things for the other.  

You Love to see them happy and want them to have what they want, partly because of your Love for them, and partly because you know that they wouldn't truly need or ask for anything that would be too great of a sacrifice for you, as they are equally invested in your happiness! 

Great Love changes both of your Lives~~ don't miss it!!
✿♥ ♔ ♥✿ 

Friday, March 1, 2013

Become The King That You Are by Loving a woman!!

 Though it isn't talked about much anymore these days (nor is it a very popular sentiment), the Secret to a man's highest happiness truly is in Getting the Girl.




In Winning the Love of a Righteous Woman, tending to and growing that Love a man becomes a more full expression of himself by opening his Heart and being vulnerable. A man who earnestly Loves a woman, learns to see through the Eyes of the Mother, of Love, of intuition, of tenderness, of nurturing, of the Heart.  It may sound hokey, but I am just sharing with you the Secret that men in Love already know.





In being worthy of that Love, He stands strong, confident, fortified and resolute!!




Aren't the best, happiest and most peaceful men that you know with an amazing woman (or seeking one?)  Woman teaches man how to Live.  In case no one has told you, Men have wonderful qualities, but knowing how to Live is not one of them.  Left to their own devices, they generally drink too much, smoke too much weed, eat too much garbage, go to bars, watch a lot of sports, focus on an expensive car (or seven), money and stuff.  (Which is fine in the short term, but not as a Life). 




Statistically speaking, married men are happier and Live longer.  





A primary focus on climbing the ladder, money & stuff fits the modern propaganda of success, but it doesn't lead to fulfillment, meaning, spiritual growth, health or peace of mind.  Only a Heart-centered Life does that. 





Most importantly, a man's life without Love is lacking the lushness, richness and sparkliness that can only be found in the eternal Fountain of The Feminine!  




Yes, one can experience these things in spiritual practice on their own, but all of that is only dress rehearsal.  It is useful to learn to tap into Divine Love and The Feminine in one's own pursuits, but the Refiner's fire happens for real in a Love relationship with a real woman!   





Men will always desire and pursue drinking from the Fountain of The Feminine, but until they know deep in their Heart that, in Truth, they are approaching it from a place of honor and integrity, it brings about their destruction. 

Drink, Be Filled, Be Honorable!!  And through the Path of Sacred Love you will Be the King that You Truly Are and ALL of the Rewards will be Yours!!  





namaste' ~ shalom ~mitakuye oyasin :) ✿♥☮ ♔ ☮♥✿


Thursday, January 24, 2013

WHAT I'VE LEARNED About Life & How To Live It

It's better to be alone than in a bad relationship.

Never drag anyone down the aisle.  Marriage is hard enough when both people really want it.


You can't make anyone attracted to you or Love you.  Better to find someone who is and does.


Don't choose an addict for a Life partner.  (And don't be one). 


Where there is revolution and anti-establishment, there is great Love.  Love leads to boldness and fearlessness in the face of evil and corruption and devotion in the pursuit of Freedom, Truth and justice.

There will be times in your Life when you have money and when you don't.  Don't attach your happiness and peace of mind to that. 







The most worthwhile pursuit is to learn to hear the guidance of that still, small voice inside.  Once you've got it, it will be a trustworthy guide for the rest of your Life.

The game of growing up is knowing what's going on in the world around you and being emotionally mature while keeping your child-like wonder. 

The coolest people have expanded consciousness.  Try mushrooms??  Be willing to look at things from many different perspectives.  Question everything. 

To Live is to experiment.  Travel, be daring, play... and try not to be too hard on yourself.

Seek, question and grow... and remember where you came from. 

Failure is not the end.  It's just a siesta. 




School doesn't teach you how to Live.  You have to do that on your own.

The biggest lies told on television are that sports, alcohol and sex are where it's at. Not True. Love, kindness and authenticity are where it's at.  

Football is cool but being a fan is not an identity.  God made you for much more than that.

The strength of your reputation and your foundation is your integrity.  You'll never regret keeping it intact.

Throughout History, an element of society has always raped the resources of the earth and enslaved people.  Let's change that!

The people in power have an agenda that works against your interests.  Realize that and you're free! 




I can't make anyone do, think or believe anything.  I can share ideas and be a good example.  Period.

Everyone is a genius.  The trick is finding, discovering or remembering what your particular genius is.  And to do that. 

The rational mind is highly overrated in our society.  Genius comes from connecting to something greater than ourselves. 

There are some things that you're going to have to pave the way for yourself if you are going to innovate.

Everyone is perfect.  It's trying to put a square peg into a round hole that makes people go sideways.

Our society is not a broad enough container for all of the varieties of people who Live in it.  Society's screwed up.  Not you.






Take pleasure in little things~~ the movement and symmetry of bubbles, the new buds on a tree, the trickle of water over rocks~~ let them be a well-spring of joy in your Life.

Becoming Enlightened means that you care about every Living thing and that you realize that it's well-being is connected to yours. 

People are quick to hand out advice.  You don't have to take it all. Follow what feels right in your own Heart.

The world will gladly break you.  Find your strength from what is enduring, eternal, Universal and within.


Hard times reveal true friends.  Value them!!  There will be times when nothing else will get you through but the support of true friendship.


I can enjoy the viewpoints of others, even if I don't share them.

I receive the most inspiration, renewal, perspective and healing from the Natural World.





Fashion is bogusness.  Don't let a runway tell you what you're supposed to look like.

Most girls have no idea how beautiful they are.  And this is a tragedy of the modern age.

If you have a steady diet of tv, movies and fashion magazines, it will chip away at how attractive you think you are.  Turn them off.

Don't spend your Health trying to get wealth.  Or you'll have to spend your wealth trying to reclaim your Health.  Health is Wealth. Take care of you. 

I am happier when I wake up without an alarm clock.


I honor the rhythms of my body.  I slow down during my Moon time and when I am low energy.


Don't go to work when you're sick.  Take time to heal.  And don't get your coworkers sick.


Don't be busy for the sake of busyness or to run from your feelings. Learn to truly relax. Have bursts of productivity when you are impassioned and inspired.  Not for appearance's sake.


You are Living to be happy.  Not to impress anyone.


What the world needs now more than anything is more Feminine Energy.






If you can endure the humiliations and disappointments in Life, you can become a beautiful symphony. 

If we treat the Earth well, she will treat us well. Walk Lightly on the Mother ☮♥


This is not your world.  It's your children's and grandchildren's and their generations.  Think & act accordingly.

Children are the closest to God.  The younger that they are, the more that they need time to play, imagine and Live in the magical realms.  Try not to interfere with this process. Limit tv & ipads.

There's nothing Humanity needs that the earth can not provide.  


It takes a lot longer to grow a tree than to cut one down. We really need trees.


Take your Mother's advice with some seriousness.  She's probably right. But Live your own Life, make your own mistakes.  And forgive yourself for them.

There's no actual food in fast food.  Don't make it a staple.  MAYBE a once-in-while treat.

If there's a commercial for it, it's not good for you. Eat whole foods.

Late Bloomers and slow starters often bring the best harvest to the table.  Don't impose an imaginary timeline on yourself.  Keep learning and doing what is yours to do.

Separate yourself from the approval of people~~ even your family and friends.  To Live the Life that you were Born to Live, you must follow your own internal compass.  Let your Heart be your guide.


Be Willing to Learn from the Mistakes of Others. 


Don't go to your deathbed with your Life still unlived in you.






Keep moving towards what you want, even if it takes decades. Rest & play along the way.  It's a marathon, not a sprint.

The Universe eventually bends to your will.  Be careful in choosing what you want, you'll get it.


Nothing worthwhile happens without commitment.
1. Figure out what your Heart Truly Desires  2.  Commit to getting it.  3.  Repeat 1 & 2 & 3.


The best way to get what you want is to learn from someone who already has it. 

Energy flows where attention goes.  I get what I think about most of the time.



Don't be attached to what you believe.  Hold it to be True until something proves to be Truer.

Your ability to change your Life depends on the size of your Vision.  See past your four walls and present circumstances.
 -Dream Big



Take risks.  We regret more things that we didn't do than we did. Climb that goddamn mountain. 


If something is worth saying, it is worth saying like you mean it.  If someone is worth kissing, then kiss them like you mean it.  Dance like you mean it.  Live like you mean it.  And mean it. 




namaste'

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

KNOWING THE QUALITY OF MY LIFE...




Knowing that the Quality of my Life is in a large part determined by the quality of the people who I allow into my Life, I give myself permission to eliminate anyone from my Life who does not serve my highest good. 


I listen to my Intuition, my Higher Self and the Guidance that tells me when something is not good for me and I correct the situation the instant that I am clear on what the disturbance is~ at the first moment that it is possible! In that way, every moment of my Life, I am aligning myself with my Highest and Best outcomes and my Highest Happiness!!

Every time I say 'no' to something that is wrong for me, I am saying 'Yes!' to something better for me, that the Universe is excited to bring to me!! I Love myself enough to give myself the gifts of Happiness, Freedom, Honoring and Authentic Self- Expression, and as I do so, other people give and receive the same gifts from me!

Namaste' ☮♥